FREE ESSAY ON ROAD TO TEENAGE PREGNANCY

ROAD TO TEENAGE PREGNANCY

The Road of Teenage Pregnancy
As a senior in high school, I had to make a very important decision. Did I want to have a
baby and finish school, or did I want to get married and quit school. Although abortion
and adoption were the right choice for some people, I knew they were not the right choice
for me. Regretfully, I chose to drop out of school, marriage and parenthood.
Many teenagers have been faced with the same decision, but how do they know which road is
the right one to take? For each person the same choice may not be the right choice. In my
case, I had seen friends pregnant in school who suffered criticism for deciding to have
sex at such a young age and for not knowing how to protect themselves against pregnancy.
What many teenagers do not realize is that some children do not have someone to talk to
them about these things. I knew nothing about sex or protection and found myself in a
position with someone who knew nothing about those things either. I decided that I did
not want to place myself in the position to be criticized by these things and quit
school.
Quitting school was a very hard decision for me to make. It forced me to decide what I
was going to do with my life once the baby came. Since I took cosmetology classes at the
technical school for two years while I was in high school, I decided to enroll in a local
beauty school to finish the hours I needed to take the board exam. I went the entire time
I was pregnant and graduated by the time the baby was four months old. I passed my board
examination and received my license by the time she was six months old. I worked as a
beautician for three years and made a decent living. I soon realized I did not want to be
a beautician for the rest of my life.
Do I regret the decision I made? To answer that, I would have to say that I do regret the
decision to drop out of school but have never once regretted having the baby. It was not
easy being married and a parent at the age of seventeen. We were both too young for the
responsibilities we faced. I worked to support us, went to beauty school, and dealt with
pregnancy while he finished high school. There were times I felt like all the
responsibility had been placed on me, which made me bitter and caused problems with our
marriage.
I knew our marriage was over by the time our daughter was four years old so we agreed to
get a divorce. I found out I was pregnant during our separation and quickly decided that
I would not settle on marriage for that reason again. There are times that I feel like I
should have tried harder to make things work, but I think we would have been unhappy. I
would not want to give my children that kind of life. To this day, I think I made the
right decision because our life is good and is getting better everyday.
Many positive things have come from my decision such as discovering the things that are
most important to me. I want to make a good life and provide my children with the best
possible choices. I have also learned that I do not want people to remember me only
because I got pregnant in high school and dropped out. These thoughts and feeling have
pushed me to get my GED, enroll in college, and to pursue a career in education. I have
learned that children are important to me and I want to make a difference in their life.
I want my children to know the decisions that they will have to face someday, to know
which decisions are the right ones to make, and to know the consequences of the things
they may choose to do. I do not think I would have these feelings so strongly if I had
chosen a different road. Who knows what I might be doing now? Do the things that have
happened mean I made the right or wrong decision? Was there even a right or wrong
decision to make?
I believe you have to do the best you can with the decisions you make regardless of
whether they are the right ones or the wrong ones. You have to take responsibility for
those decisions and do the right thing for the people involved. You should never feel
sorry for yourself and the position you might find yourself. It does no good to punish
yourself or those around you, just take each one as a lesson in life and do the best with
it that you can.